“I’m waiting for …” What? Why? Don’t wait! Do something!

I saw the post below online this morning and it reminded me of one of those “lessons learned.” As a young associate I once started a response to a senior attorney (who wanted an update on the status of an important matter) with “I’m waiting for ….” That’s far as I got! “Why? Why are you waiting? Pick up the phone and call him. Get it done. GO.”

Whoa. My first reaction was “What a jerk!” And, frankly, he was. THEN, however, I realized the reason I was waiting was because I was intimidated at the prospect of calling the attorney on the other side. I was stalling because of my own insecurity. And there was no reason for it! He’d made his point.

Lesson learned: Whenever you find yourself starting a sentence with “I’m waiting for …,” take a second and think about whether you should be waiting for anything at all or whether, instead, you should take control and make something happen! More often than not that is the better choice!

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